I am sure that every girl wants to know why your half loves you, or how to make your half loves you more. That’s the only reason why the books “Why men love bitches”, “Why men marry bitches”, and “He’s just not that into you” are always the best buy in the list. Even me, I bought all that kind of books just try to know more about men, especiall after I fall in love with my white man. “Why white men like Asian girls?” is always spinning in my mind. After talking to my fiance, I figure out why white men like Asian girls now and really want to share the reason why with you all.

Firstly, white girls are more independent than Asian girls. Men like to be needed, they want to be superman somehow. Asian girls are more dependent than white girls are due to the cultural different. Asians are more family-based, parents always take care of their children no matter how old they are. On the other hand, white people are taught to be independent. Most of the western poeple start living alone when they are working; or even before working, they may move out with their friends to share an apartment, take care of themselves. Many books and magazine said men were borned to protect women, Asian girls are the good target to be protected since they are less independent than white girls are.

Secondly, white men may think Asian girls are more family type. As I mentioned before, Asians are more family-oriented, most of the Asian girls know very well how to do housework and cooking. This is an ancient custom, women work at home, men work outside. It means women suppose to stay home and take care of all the houseworks while men suppose to work and earn money for home. This tradition custom is no more up-to-date, but deep in Asians’ mind, they have that kind of concept, it may be one of the reason why white men like Asians. Asian girls are potentially to be a good wife and good mom in white men’s eyes.

Last but not least, “A thing is valued if it is rare”. For white men, Asians are something rare in their hometown, so Asians are kind of special for them. It is not difficult to understand. I think it is the same for Asians, cause white men is “rare” in our hometown, that’s why western people are special for us. White men like Asian girls, it may simply because Asians are special in their eyes.

I would like to know more, if you know why white men like Asians, please let me know!

When I think of writing this topic, why Asians like white men, I do a bit surfing internet about this topic. There are lots of forum talking about the love of white men and Asians, but most of them is kind of insulting Asians, like Asians want to find a white man cause they are rich. Excuse me? Is it all the white guys are rich, and all Asians are broke and waiting for a while man to feed? I am in love with a white man, and I am not saying any bad words about white man cause I do think there are so many different types of people in a country, nice one, mean one, gentle one, rude one, rich one and poor one. I would like to write this article just to let more people know why Asians likes white man.

For me, white men are more romantic than Asians are. Westerns light up the candles in the bedroom just because, they may take more than an hour to enjoy a meal with different courses. I think it is because western people know how to enjoy their life. In Hong Kong, people work for living, all of us will only have a quick lunch cause time is money. We get used to live in the quick-step society, become more and more realistic. Meal is the thing to fill up the stomach, no need candles, no need so many different course. I enjoy to be with my white man cause he is romantic.

Secondly, white man are more gentle, I am not saying Asians are rude. You can always see a white man let ladies first. Like in the busy shopping mall, you seldom see an Asian opens the door for you and let people go first, but western people do. All girls want to have a gentleman boyfriend, and that’s why Asians like white man.

The last but not least, for me, I think it is easier to communicate with white man than Asian. Asians are always shy and not very good at expressing their feeling. Asians keep the feeling more inside. Asians seldom say “I love you” to her girlfriend, not even their parents. I feel comfort to just say it out cause being with a white man, I am not speak in my mother tongue, using a different language makes me feel more comfortable to express my feeling. I like to hear it when my fiancee said “I love you”.

I am an Asian, I am not saying Asians are worse than white man, but I do think cause of the different culture, you can find something which you can’t find from Asian. Again, Asian likes a white man not because of how rich he is, it is simply because love.

P.S. Hubby, I love you!!

There is a video showing different people think about why Asian like white guy: